While there are situations where physical attraction is a factor it is rarely so overwhelming that it makes a friendship impossible. When physical attraction or lust does get in the way of being friends it isn’t always the guy who is struggling with those feelings. Yes, girls do lust after guys as much as guys lust after girls.
Therefore, when it comes to the situation where the guys/girls already have their own love, u as the third party should behave yourself. Friendship sometimes can lead to a growth of feeling which we can call it "LOVE". This unique feeling will always come when someone get closer and closer day by day as they used to hang out together, visit each other, text each other, do things together, live near each other and sometimes, (more worst) they keep texting each other even though they already knew other side will totally feel uncomfortable with their act.
So, no wonder if u should stay away from becoming the third party as u will totally ruin others' relationship. So, let me ask u this, have you ever been in a relationship with someone you loved and someone pops up to try and ruin it? if u don't, u should feel it one day..if the answer is yes, u should already felt what is the real hurt we will have, when we feel like there is no loyalty in the relationship.
Honestly, there's no fault for guys and girls to be just friends without disturbing others' relationship..So, here's are some advises to all girls/boys who wish to friend with someone's love.
1) Don't overlimit. This means u guys just a friend.So, just stop hang out together oftenly, text too much. Just know your limit.
2) Don't flirt with that 'manje2' childish thing..(Durr, annoying!)
3) Don't ever "puji" your opposite sex bestfriend in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend. (no wonder la ade rase jelez kan??)
4) Honesty. This means don't ever contact your bestfriend "curi2" or "senyap2" after dah tahu your partner sgt la x comfortable with your friend tu. ( lagi la mewujudkan syak prasangka buruk kn??)
5) Don't struggle to help your friend to buy thing when u are with your boyfriend/girlfriend. ( confirm la bile dh keluar ade plan nak pg mane kan.suddenly, ur opposite sex bestfriend msg mintak tlg belikan brg n more worst u too struggle nak cari brg tu for him/her sampai x pedulikan ur partner..rase2 ape perasaan ur partner tu? hmmm...)
6) Please avoid physical contact.
That's all for know..for those yang really regret/sedih/whatever la as u "losing a friend for an unavoidable circumstances named GIRLFRIEND/BOYFRIEND" tu..just bare in your mind..mesti ada something yang u dh buat smpai die sakit hati kan..fikir2 la.. No hard feeling.. This is just a piece of my thoughts.. :)
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