sweetness of marriage

me with my only "kekasih halal"

When it comes to marriage, people will always think of its sweetness. So, how to ensure this sweetness of marriage will be forever?

When two people unite in Allah's purpose, they are given a moment of true clarity, when each of them know all there is about their chosen life partner. The knowing is best expressed with one word "perfection". Couples in a conscious marriage understand they are whole and complete exactly as they are. The greatest purpose of marriage is for two complete people to join together for the glory of religion.

Whether you are newly married or entering your golden years together, here are points to help you remember your partner's perfection ~

1)      Appreciate your partner's expression of beauty, exactly as they are.

2)      Ensure the marriage is a safe place for each partner.

3)      No agenda necessary in a marriage. It is not our business to make the relationship into something we think it should be. Our business is to release others to be who they are.

4)      Acceptance encourages intimacy.

When you speak the words "I love you", do you feel the magic of these sacred words? These three little words carry huge significance. No matter how long you have been with someone, telling them you love them is still important. Telling someone you love them is a confirmation of your feelings. Even people who have been together for years occasionally need to be reminded. If you love someone, telling them shouldn't ever be forgotten. You never know when it will be too late. So, if you're feeling it, be sure to say it.

Being together, doing things together and being yourselves are the most important in a relationship. There are many ways u can make this possible such as cook a meal together, go backpacking together, take a walk together, learn to dance or cuddle on the couch.

Kindness is a gentle expression of your love for each other, without using words. Just show your spouse kindness without expectation. This really will help to build a happy family. How to show this kindness? For example, if she always cooks the meals, surprise her one night by preparing her favorite dinner with your loving hands. If he always tends the yard, give him the gift of a gardener, just for the day.

Simple right? Just remember marriages are made in heaven and are consummated on earth. So let’s us make this sacred relationship being one of the “pahala” for us. InsyaAllah.